I am not really a big fan of over saving, or being too overly frugal. I think that you should take life easy and stop being so hard on yourself sometimes.
That doesn't mean I think you should spend all your savings on a new car just because you want it, but it means that you should not feel guilty for wanting a new car instead of a used one.
Different strokes for different folks.
For me, I save a lot by realizing that my true love is technology, and I can get away with minimal hair products, minimal makeup, and I've really pared down my closets to fit into 3 suitcases and 2 carry-ons.
This may not be the lifestyle for you, but I find that I feel freer (now) with less items to carry around or look at.
I don't believe in punishing yourself for having debt. You got into it, you want to get out, and that's that.
What you need to do, is learn how to manage your money now, and being yelled at for past mistakes is never productive.
Where I do get angry is when people don't learn from their past mistakes or time and time again, make bad financial decisions.
With that being said, it is NOT easy but it CAN be done.
There is no magic pill or so-called easy way to get out of debt. What you need right now is to get out of denial that you have debt, make a plan, and start budgeting and tracking your expenses.
General Commentary on Budgeting, Saving & Debt
- Why do you rent instead of owning a home?
- Three levels of frugality
- Faring on a $1000/month budget – Revisited
- 5 Familiar Lies we tell ourselves
- Being Frugal, Cheap and a Cheap Opportunist
- Blaming anyone but yourself is the easy way out
- There is such a thing as being too frugal
- I hate the word "Frugal"
- Finding $$ to do what you want
- Shopping to fill an emotional void
Taking Control of your Finances & Budget
- 5 Finance Basics
- How to bust out a budget
- How to bust out simple or complex compounding interest - math formulas
- 5 Steps to taking control of your finances
- Budgeting for a Nervous Wreck of a Self-Employed Person
- Calculating your Net Worth
- How to decide whether to Save for Retirement, Save for Emergencies or Clear your debt?
- FB's 15 Personal Finance Tidbits
Debt & Budgeting
- How to motivate yourself NOT to blow all your cash savings
- Don't have a steady cheque? Read this.
- Keeping up with your credit card transactions
- Paying your debt in installments
- But you told me I could splurge!
- Compounding Interest, De-Mystified
- How compounding interest works (the formula)
- How to bust out simple or complex compounding interest - math formulas
- How to decide whether to Save for Retirement, Save for Emergencies or Clear your debt?
- How to get your free credit report (Canada)
- Debt Sucks but so does not living your life
- FB's Words for College Students
- Surviving and Thriving on $12k/year (Not FB)
- Letting debt rule your life is stupid
- Geeez! $30-$80 isn't thrifty!!!
Cutting Back
- FB's Guide to Selling Stuff Online
- How to bring your lunch to work. Easily, to save $10/day or $200/month!
- How we travel for $1000 per person to a city (all inclusive)
- What have you eliminated that you do not miss?
- Toothpaste? Who needs it?! Use other eco-friendly alternatives!
- Being Cheap and Living on Less
- How we save on our budget categories
- It's all the little things that matter in life
- Letting go of unused subscriptions
- Money Hacks
- Turns out most expensive isn't always the best
- Reflection of what I've foregone to save money
- Saving money on Beauty
Shopping & Travelling
- Travelling Frugally and Intelligently
- The scoop on Swagbucks.com (earning cash or gift certificates just for searching!)
- Cost per use is a Shopaholic's Saviour at times
- Shopping Strategies to save time and money
Reader Questions
- Reader: Help me figure out what to do, I want a career change and am in debt
- Reader: HELP! I want some advice and a Financial Makeover
- Gail Case Study: Help Polly!
- Gail Case Study: Help Bobbi!
- Reader: Why do you rent instead of owning a home?
Mistakes people make & Getting Started
- There is such a thing as being too frugal
- I hate the word frugal
- A True Cost of an Item
- 5 Familiar Lies we tell ourselves
- Why I rent instead of owning a home
- 13 Holiday Blunders
- 5 Budget Busters
- Debt Proofing your Holiday
Grocery Shopping Savings
- Cheapest Grocery Stores in Montreal
- 10 Ways to Save on your Grocery Bill each month
- Do you always check your receipts? You should.
- Our assumptions when comparing grocery stores are skewed
- How we screw ourselves over (when grocery shopping)
- How we chopped our grocery bill down by 57%
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